Sunday, October 24, 2010

Why women and men will never be on the same PAGE!

A lot of people make their conlclusion when it comes to the difference between women and men. Some are very comfortable with the fact that "Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars." Although that's one way of looking at it, I've chosen to go with the bible.

Now, before you run away or decide that you don't want to read on, I'll have you know that the bible is a wonderful, cryptic book, with loads of codes and messages, but which is only understood once these codes are deciphered. Things make more sense then, and the pieces fall into place.

From experiences in general, I have learnt to understand the meaning of a few passages I couldn't understand earlier. Life really is One BIG lesson, teacher if you like.

Genesis 3:16 (...) You will greatly desire your husband, but he will rule over you. 

Men have women's hearts like candy on a stick. I'll come back to why I chose those words later.

It's so easy to decide to give up your life for a guy, to want to live, breathe and exist to please him. But it is much rarer to see a guy do the exact same thing for a woman. Very rare.

Yes.. Adam might have shown weakness by succumbing to Eve's suggestion about taking a bite from the fruit of the forbidden tree, but then again, the tables turned once they had both eaten from the fruit.

It is easier for a man not to understand the heart of a woman, to cheat, to play with her heart and to completely ruin her without a guilty conscience. In 2 Samuel 13 (it's a longer passage. So, if you are interested in reading it, just press the link) Amnon desired Tamar, but after he had slept with her, he despised her with intense hatred and threw her out to be shamed. She had refused to sleep with him, but being stronger than she was, he had raped her. After this he ordered her to be thrown out by the guards, and for the doors to be bolted after her.

Women might be playing with a man's heart today, but most of the time they have a conscience, and other times what they do is solely triggered by the desire to do exactly what has been done to them.

Men will never understand women to a point where they can get inside her mind and know what she's thinking, and on the other hand, neither can women. They can do whatever they want driven by the very fact that they are "men", and sometimes women let that happen. It's a sad story, really.

Signed with Love,

Chika xxx